Week 5 - challenge

I've written lots about exploration, mainly with hands and fingers thus far, so it's probably about time to start getting tongues involved.
You might already feel like a champion of oral sex, or you might feel like you don't particularly like it. Either way or any where in between, there is no doubting that this is an intensely intimate act that both of you can derive lots of pleasure from.
So, whatever your level - whether you have your technique down pat or you sort of don't mind it or you don't like it - use one night this week to grow your practice / connection / technique with your partner. You might want to do it over two nights, so that each person gets a dedicated night to themselves.

Things to think about:
1. Position: Which position works best for man and woman. Does your man like to be standing up, or sitting, with you kneeling, or him lying down and you sitting over him. Do you like to be on your back legs spread, or do you like the 69, or do you like your partner lying down and you kneeling over his head. Depending on the vagina and penis different positions can be more pleasurable, for a variety of reasons as simple as comfortable access to the clitoris etc.

2. Pressure/Penetration: Oral sex can be a great precursor to penetrative sex because it's exciting and it also lends itself a bit of lube in the form of saliva.
On women: after stimulating the clitoris and the opening, try using your tongues like a penetrative tool, tighten it and penetrate the opening of the vagina.
On men: don't just suck and bob, be creative. Experiment with different types of tongue pressure and licking. Depending on the sensitivity of the penis you could try adding pressure to the tip of the penis with your tongue.

3. Consumption: This sounds like a gross description, but you have to admit there is something very basically sensual about this act. It is like consuming each other with your mouths, which can be an almost animalistic, sexy, wild thing to do. Go with that feeling if it does overcome you. Lick and consume, bury your face if it helps, smell and touch and explore.
On men: try licking and soft biting (depending on sensitivity!!) especially around the join of the foreskin (or the scar where it would have been on circumcised men), forget the gag reflex, relax your throat and try take the penis all the way down till you feel the tip at the back of your throat. (This will feel kind of like hitting your g or a spot in your vagina) Try fast and slow motions. If this is uncomfortable and you can not do this for any reason, no matter, take as much as you can, even if it's just the head, the head of the penis is the most sensitive and lots can be done with just that bit. Use your hand, wrapped around the base of the penis, to help masturbate as you lick or suck.
On women: try licking and soft biting of the labia and clitoris. Try soft, flat licking, hard tongued licking. Try holding back the skin folds to push out the clitoris (if it's proving hard to find as your partner to pull back and hold the skin back for you). As mentioned, try penetrating with your tongue as well, don't just make this a clitoral stimulation - totally explore the area.

I can add more tips and techniques to try upon request, but have a go being experimental yourselves first, I think.

Enjoy!